Proverbs 25:8-11 New King James Version (NKJV)

8. Do not go hastily to court;For what will you do in the end,When your neighbor has put you to shame?

9. Debate your case with your neighbor,And do not disclose the secret to another;

10. Lest he who hears it expose your shame,And your reputation be ruined.

11. A word fitly spoken is like apples of goldIn settings of silver.

Proverbs 25