Sirach (Ecclesiasticus) 33:18-22 Good News Bible Catholic Edition (GNBDK)

18. Listen to me, all you great leaders! All you leaders of the assemblies, hear what I have to say!

19. Never, as long as you live, give anyone power over you — whether son, wife, brother, or friend. Don't give your property to anyone; you might change your mind and have to ask for it back.

20. As long as you have breath in your body, don't let anyone lead your life for you.

21. It is better that your children be dependent on you than the other way round.

22. Keep control over all that you do; don't let anyone stain your reputation.

Sirach (Ecclesiasticus) 33