6. What I have just said is not meant as a command but as a suggestion.
7. I would like everyone to be like me. However, each person has a special gift from God, and these gifts vary from person to person.
8. I say to those who are not married, especially to widows: It is good for you to stay single like me.
9. However, if you cannot control your desires, you should get married. It is better for you to marry than to burn ⌊with sexual desire⌋.
10. I pass this command along (not really I, but the Lord): A wife shouldn’t leave her husband.
11. If she does, she should stay single or make up with her husband. Likewise, a husband should not divorce his wife.
12. I (not the Lord) say to the rest of you: If any Christian man is married to a woman who is an unbeliever, and she is willing to live with him, he should not divorce her.