4. He must rule his own household well, keeping his children under control, with true dignity, commanding their respect in every way and keeping them respectful.
5. For if a man does not know how to rule his own household, how is he to take care of the church of God?
6. He must not be a new convert, or he may [develop a beclouded and stupid state of mind] as the result of pride [be blinded by conceit, and] fall into the condemnation that the devil [once] did. [Isa. 14:12-14.]
7. Furthermore, he must have a good reputation and be well thought of by those outside [the church], lest he become involved in slander and incur reproach and fall into the devil's trap.
8. In like manner the deacons [must be] worthy of respect, not shifty and double-talkers but sincere in what they say, not given to much wine, not greedy for base gain [craving wealth and resorting to ignoble and dishonest methods of getting it].
9. They must possess the mystic secret of the faith [Christian truth as hidden from ungodly men] with a clear conscience.
10. And let them also be tried and investigated and proved first; then, if they turn out to be above reproach, let them serve [as deacons].
11. [The] women likewise must be worthy of respect and serious, not gossipers, but temperate and self-controlled, [thoroughly] trustworthy in all things.
12. Let deacons be the husbands of but one wife, and let them manage [their] children and their own households well.
13. For those who perform well as deacons acquire a good standing for themselves and also gain much confidence and freedom and boldness in the faith which is [founded on and centers] in Christ Jesus.